The reduction of much in the housekeep of all that is personal to me. Only now am I getting to see what has happened after a period of bombardment of the intertwining of many strands of health declining in various segments of the family. 

My late father with no hair after cancer treatment whilst a hubby dying. A sister who was made redundant and not working at the time which is destiny for she supported Dad, was able to have her first foot op. And in the middle of decorating her room when I made contact to say what happened to the utter shock of that Winter festive time .... she was able to support me in restablishimg contact with the world after a long period of social isolation in not talking or seeing anyone except my inner sanctum duo... after failed attempts to get anyone to listen ...